Funeral Flowers – Questions & Helpful Guidance

When words aren’t enough, flowers can speak volumes. Our compassionate team at Urban Design Flowers has gathered answers to common questions about funeral flower delivery, etiquette, and choosing meaningful tributes across Birmingham and Solihull.


What is the difference between funeral flowers and sympathy flowers?
Funeral flowers are often large tributes, wreaths, sprays, casket sprays) sent to the funeral service or venue.
Sympathy flowers are usually bouquets or arrangements sent to the home of the bereaved, before or after the service.

How much should you spend on funeral flowers?
It depends on the type of tribute, size, flower choices and personal preference. You can view some of our available selection here.

Which flowers are traditionally used for funerals?
Lilies, roses, carnations, chrysanthemums, gladioli and chrysanthemums are common. White blooms are especially common as a symbol of purity and peace. Contact us to discuss any other preferences or seasonal availbility.

How do you choose a funeral flower arrangement?
Consider relationship to the deceased, the size of venue, the type of service, the deceased’s tastes or favourite flowers / colours, and budget.

Do you need to place the order in advance?
Yes — ideally 1–3 days ahead. For bespoke or large tributes, more notice (3–5 days) is safer to ensure flower availibility. If this is not possible, contact us as soon as possible and we can offer a select range of floral designs for you.

Where do you deliver funeral flowers?
Usually to the funeral home, chapel, crematorium, church, or place of service. Also sometimes to the family home, depending on arrangement.

Is it appropriate to send flowers after the funeral?
Yes. Sympathy flowers / tributes sent to the bereaved home after the funeral can be a comforting gesture.

Can I request specific flowers or colours?
Yes—you can request certain blooms, colour schemes, or favourite flowers (subject to availability and season).

How soon will the tribute arrive / be placed?
On the day of the funeral, usually a few hours before the service starts. The funeral director often coordinates placement.

Do you need to specify the funeral director / venue when ordering?
Yes — We will need the full address, arrival time, contact details of funeral director or venue to ensure proper delivery and placement.

Can I see examples of previous funeral tributes?
Yes — We have a a selection available to view here and brochures available in store. For any bespoke tributes contact us directly to discuss.